16. 4 Game-Changing (SEXY) Lessons for Entrepreneurs from Biz on the Beach
I’m still glowing from hosting my first retreat in FOUR years, and I’ve got to say—it was nothing short of magical. Imagine this: a stunning boutique hotel in Sayulita, Mexico, where a killer crew of ambitious, heart-centered women gathered for a week of deep work on their biz, creativity, and personal growth. Spoiler alert: if you’ve been looking for a way to revive your mojo, keep reading.
This retreat was a full-circle moment for me, blending my love for travel, somatics, yoga, and biz strategy. And while I could gush for days about the massages, sunrise yoga, and organic meals, what I really want to share are the four powerful lessons that emerged from this transformative experience.
In this episode, I’m unpacking the 4 biggest lessons I learned during this transformative experience. From the power of in-person connection (spoiler: it’s literal medicine) to how your environment shapes your vibe, these takeaways are pure gold for anyone ready to amplify their biz and their joy.
If you’ve been feeling disconnected, uninspired, or overwhelmed by your biz, these lessons will give you the clarity, spark, and action steps you need to realign and reignite your FIYAAAAA 🔥
And if the idea of sipping a coconut margarita while brainstorming your next big idea with an ambitious, heart-led crew sounds dreamy, the waitlist for Biz on the Beach 2025 is officially open, and trust me, you’ll want to be on it!
In This Episode, We'll Dive Into:
How IRL is MEDICINE and why retreats are a game-changer for personal and professional growth (3:15)
How in-person connection fuels creativity and co-regulation (8:40)
The key to building community that lifts you higher (14:20)
Why your environment is everything when it comes to vibing with your goals (19:30)
These takeaways are the fuel you need to light up your life, business, and creativity. Ready to dive in?
1. IRL is Medicine
Let’s talk about the magic of being in real life. If the last few years taught us anything, it’s that isolation is no joke. Virtual work, while convenient, can leave us feeling disconnected. This retreat was a much-needed reminder that real-life connection isn’t just a luxury—it’s healing.
Why IRL matters:
Co-regulation of Nervous Systems: There’s something about being physically present with others that can’t be replicated through screens. The shared laughter, group yoga sessions, and even the small talk over meals helped us feel seen, supported, and grounded.
In-Between Moments: Beyond the scheduled workshops and strategy sessions, the magic happened in the “in-between” moments—like laughing over romance novels or brainstorming over fish tacos by the pool. These spontaneous interactions can spark creativity and deepen bonds in a way that planned activities often can’t.
Whether it’s attending a retreat, a local networking event, or hosting your own mastermind meetup, finding ways to connect IRL is transformative. The energy and insights you’ll gain are worth every effort.
2. We Don’t Know It Until You Say It
This one’s a truth bomb: we can’t know what you’re dreaming, selling, or hoping for until you SAY IT.
At the retreat, we had a powerful appreciation circle where everyone took turns receiving verbal appreciation from the group. The insights and affirmations shared were incredible—and many of them were things the recipients had no idea anyone noticed.
The same goes for your business. Whether it’s a new offer you’re launching, a bold dream you’re pursuing, or a value you stand by, you’ve got to say it out loud. Here’s why:
Clarity Breeds Connection: Two retreat attendees voiced their dreams of writing books for the first time. By saying it out loud, they not only got validation but also actionable support—like referrals to writing coaches and publishing resources.
Selling with Confidence: If you’re holding back because you fear being too “salesy,” consider this: your audience wants to hear from you. Be direct about what you’re offering and why it matters. Whether it’s a simple “DM me for more info” or a full sales pitch, clarity is key to connection.
Your dreams, offers, and values deserve airtime. Start by voicing them in safe spaces, then bring them into your marketing. Don’t overthink it—just say it.
3. It’s a Together Kind of Thing
Let’s be real: we’re not meant to do it all alone. The myth of the “lone wolf” entrepreneur is not only exhausting—it’s counterproductive.
At the retreat, we had attendees from wildly different industries: photographers, a felt hat maker, a doula transitioning to midwifery, and a boutique shop owner. The insights they shared during our hot seats were gold. Why? Because fresh perspectives unlock solutions we’d never see on our own.
Here’s why “together” works:
Cross-Pollination of Ideas: Getting feedback from someone outside your industry can spark ideas you’d never consider. For example, a photographer gaining marketing insights from a boutique owner, or a hat maker receiving branding tips from a personal branding expert.
The Power of Being Seen: Group spaces amplify your genius. Sometimes others see your potential more clearly than you do. One attendee said, “You see me in such an elevated way, and now I get to step into that version of myself.”
Surround yourself with a community that gets it. Whether it’s a mastermind, a peer group, or a retreat, being in a room with others who are rooting for your success is a game-changer.
4. Environment Equals Your Vibe
Here’s a hard truth: your surroundings shape your energy. Whether it’s the people you’re with, the physical space you’re in, or the energy you’re absorbing, your environment sets the tone for how you show up.
At Biz on the Beach, the environment was curated for inspiration:
Morning yoga sessions overlooking the ocean.
Strategy sessions poolside with ambitious women.
Organic meals cooked with love.
A hot tub for late-night relaxation.
It wasn’t just luxury—it was intentional. The vibe of the space lifted everyone up, making it impossible not to feel inspired, sexy, and energized.
Want to feel a certain way? Find (or create) an environment that embodies that energy. Whether it’s a vibrant co-working space, a cozy corner of your home, or a retreat with like-minded people, your surroundings matter.
Bringing It All Together
These four lessons—IRL connection, speaking your truth, community, and curating your environment—are powerful tools to ignite your life and business.
Here’s how to integrate them right now:
Make IRL Happen: Look for opportunities to connect in person. Host a coffee meetup, attend a retreat, or join a local group.
Say It Out Loud: Whether it’s a bold dream or a new offer, practice voicing it. Start small, but start now.
Find Your People: Seek out communities that challenge and support you. Remember: together is always better.
Curate Your Vibe: Audit your environment and ask, “Does this inspire me?” If not, make small changes that align with the energy you want to feel.
Your Invitation to Join Us IRL
If these lessons spoke to you, I’d love to invite you to the next Biz on the Beach Retreat. The 2025 waitlist is already open, and trust me, you’ll want to be there. It’s a week of transformation, connection, and strategy in one of the most stunning settings imaginable. Join the waitlist and snag early bird perks.
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